Multiple orgasms

What is a multiple orgasm?

orgasmMultiple orgasms are what many couples strive for during sexual intercourse. They are a series of orgasms that occur in quick succession. Women are more likely than men to experience multiple orgasms.

But the good news is that men can also become multi-orgasmic with some practice and some basic knowledge of the male sexual arousal cycle, which is explained in detail further below. Women, on the other hand, can be aroused immediately after they experienced an orgasm. However, it also takes a bit of practice for most women to achieve multiple orgasms.

Multiple orgasms for women

There are a few tricks you can try to see if they help you achieve multiple orgasms during sexual intercourse. It’s important that you know your body. Get to know the hot spots and how you like to be stimulated. Try immersing yourself in fantasy, whatever turns you on, and also use some lubricating gel because it makes stimulation easier, especially of the sensitive spots.

intimateTell your partner that you like a long foreplay to become aroused, especially foreplay that focuses on clitoral stimulation. Be rested before you have sex. The main reason why many couples stop after they achieve the first orgasm is due to being too tired to go on. But if you are well rested, you can try for another amazing orgasm.

And finally, it’s good to know that after the first orgasm, many women can achieve their second orgasm in a shorter period of time. It may take 15 or 20 minutes to reach the first orgasm, but just 5 minutes for the second or third. So keep going as long as you are enjoying it.

The good news is that the Little Deeper® sex furniture can greatly enhance your chances of achieving multiple orgasms. That’s because it takes the stress out of lovemaking. It relaxes your hips and lower torso and tilts and lifts up your hips for the perfect height and angle of penetration. In fact, it makes penetration more natural and pleasurable.

Multiple orgasms for men

With a little bit of practice, many men can learn to become multi-orgasmic. To achieve this, men have to know that the goal is not mainly to ejaculate, but rather the process of making love. A man would want to achieve an orgasm without losing arousal inbetween multiple orgasms.

So to enjoy multiple orgasms instead of just one single ejaculatory orgasm, men have to know what to do as they reach the so-called “point of no return,” which is a short point in time that’s right before ejaculation. At this point, men experience a few genital contractions that last about three to five seconds. These first contractions are pelvic orgasms. So when approaching this “point of no return,” the goal is to try to not crest over into ejaculation, but instead, to try to decrease stimulation.

Men can learn to control this point by actively squeezing their pubococcygeal muscles (see explanation below). So the first thing for men to understand is that orgasm and ejaculation are two distinct events in the male sexual arousal cycle. Most men think they are the same thing because they happen so close together (orgasm happens just before ejaculation takes place).

The second important point is to learn how to separate these two events. Men can achieve this with their pubococcygeal muscles (also called PC muscles), which are pelvic muscles that can be identified if you try to stop the flow of urine in mid-stream. If you have difficulty doing this, then your PC muscles are weak and you need to regularly exercise them. These PC muscles play a major role in a man’s ability to achieve multiple orgasms.

Here are a few steps you can do to practice your PC muscles:

  1. Begin your training on your own, while masturbating
  2. Just before you reach the “point of no return” (the point where you would normally ejaculate), contract your PC muscles for about 10 seconds
  3. After this relax for a few minutes
  4. Start masturbating again and try to get yourself a bit closer to the “point of no return.” Right before it, contract your PC muscles again.
  5. Continue masturbating. The goal with this exercise is to get to know your body better and to learn how to control your ejaculation, while increasing pleasure at the same time, which will ultimately lead you to experiencing multiple orgasms.

neck kissSo once again, the key is that right during the orgasm phase, you will notice several contractions that signal the beginning of ejaculation. When these contractions begin or even better, just before they begin but still during orgasm, stop stimulating the penis and contract the PC muscles. By squeezing the PC muscles, the ejaculation is being shut off and the dreaded refractory period is effectively postponed. It will take practice to learn the timing, but once you master this you can enjoy increased stamina and much longer lovemaking, two things that many women greatly appreciate.

The Little Deeper® sex furniture can help you master the art of multiple orgasms because it makes it easier to penetrate your partner. The hips will be tilted and lifted up at the perfect angle for penetration, so you can enjoy a more sensual experience, increased stimulation of the penis and a hands-free sexual experience.