You don’t have to settle for orgasms that are short or weak. Even if you are someone who has trouble climaxing during intercourse or during any other sexual activity with a partner, there are techniques that you can add into your sex life that are guaranteed to change that. Plus, they are simple and inexpensive – and not to mention fun. After all, who wouldn’t want to have a stronger orgasm?
Sex toys are an excellent way to provide additional stimulation and pleasure during intercourse, oral or anal sex, and masturbation. They can be used to stimulate the G-spot, clitoris, anus, or penis, which along with the sensations of other sexual activities can result in a mind-blowing orgasm. These types of toys include vibrators, dildos, “C-rings,” strap-ons and massagers that stimulate these areas.
There are various lubricants that can provide additional pleasure as well. There are ones that provide warmth and stimulation and ones that can be used for erotic massage, along with flavored and other edible lubes that are great to use during oral sex. However, oil-based lubricants and ones containing sugar should not be used in the vaginal area, as this will hold in bacteria and increase the likelihood for infection. Oil-based lubes should not be used on condoms or on any other products containing latex, neither, as they will dissolve the material.
Sometimes orgasm issues simply are the result of being in an unfavorable position or because of penetration that is too shallow. To stop or prevent this problem, anatomically designed sex furniture, such as the Little Deeper® cushion, can help. This specially-made cushion tilts and lifts up the pelvis and keeps it in the perfect height and angle, so the partner doing the “work” doesn’t have to move all around to find the best spot and be forced to keep himself in a strenuous position. Because he is comfortable and his partner’s hips are lifted, he can also penetrate deeper without effort, increasing pleasure for both partners because all erogenous zones are being stimulated in the same time.
The “holding back” technique is a great way to get a stronger and longer-lasting orgasm. This is when someone brings him- or herself close to climax, but stops right before it actually happens. Doing this a few times will ensure that you will not have a short or weak orgasm.
Another mistake couples make is jumping straight to intercourse without any foreplay. This can be a problem as the woman may not be wet enough or the man may not be fully erect, so intercourse could be more of a challenge than something that should be enjoyable.
Foreplay, such as touching, fingering, or even oral sex, can be just as enjoyable as intercourse and is an excellent way for partners to warm up before sex. This way, once the couple is finished with foreplay and switch to intercourse, they are already turned on and are wanting more, so both the actual sex and the climax will be as enjoyable and satisfying as possible.
