Secrets to a successful and long-lasting relationship with Little Deeper sex cushion
People who have been married for 50+ years are not simply lucky. Just as with any other couple, they have been through obstacles in their relationship and marriage and had to work out solutions to their problems. The difference between those who have been together for so long and those who can barely stay in a relationship are that successful relationships follow certain guidelines to keep their relationship going strong. Sure, they have fought with each other just as any couple has (there is no such thing as a PERFECT relationship, after all), but by following these rules, the usual bickering can be resolved quickly without causing the relationship to crumble apart:
Communicating with each other is key to a happy and long-lasting relationship. If couples don’t communicate effectively with each other, it can lead to misunderstandings and partners jumping to conclusions. One may have misunderstood what the other person was saying, but one doesn’t ask about it, one will never know that it had really been a misunderstanding. This can lead to one partner feeling resentment toward the other, and simply holding it in is only going to make the problem worse. Eventually, it has to come out in some form, which will lead to even more anger and other unhealthy emotions and result in a bigger fight.
As soon as one partner feels hurt or angry over something the other said or did, he or she needs to bring it up and talk about it with the other, which can rule out misunderstandings and lead to a much greater chance of finding a successful and healthy resolution to the issue. However, yelling about it and cursing at the other person is not the way to go.
Instead, in as calm of a tone as possible, bring it up to other person and state what he or she said and how it made you feel. Give your partner room to express his or her feelings as well.
Know and admit when you are wrong
Sometimes you realize that you shouldn’t have said or done something, but pride may get in the way of you apologizing to your partner. However, in order to end an argument quicker and make your relationship work, you have to push your pride aside and say to your partner: “What I said or did was wrong and I am sorry.”
Be wise with your money
Financial problems can lead to the most fights in a relationship and it is one of the top causes of divorces. To keep the relationship going, both partners need to spend their money with caution. You can treat yourself every now and then, though you may have to hold this off for a little while if money is tight. Sometimes you may only be able to spend money on what you and your partner need, though occasionally treating each other to ice cream or giving the other a surprise gift of roses definitely doesn’t hurt a relationship.
Make time for just the two of you
If you always have kids or the in-laws around, it can be quite difficult to bond and have fun with just your partner. If you never have some “quality” time with your partner, the two of you may grow further and further apart as your minds are focused on other things, which can even cause you to almost forget the other’s existence.
It is very important to share time alone and have some fun with your partner or your relationship is bound to fail. Cuddle together in the living room while watching a movie, sit around the fireplace, play a board game, go for a walk together, or spend the day, night, or weekend at the beach (or completely get away – rent a cabin in the wilderness or a hotel room in a city).
To make the most of your time alone with each other, it can also be good to “spice” things up every now and then. Since a good sex life also usually equals a healthy relationship, adding something that can enhance those intimate moments even more can be very beneficial. Try something such as the Little Deeper® sex cushion, which can make intercourse more comfortable and enjoyable by adding both support and comfort. It was designed to put both partners into the most ideal position for lovemaking and is also great for people with disabilities, those who suffer from back and other muscle or joint pains and basically for anyone who wants to increase the pleasure of intimacy and improve their love lives.