Ways to spice up your sex life to improve your relationship

Sex in itself feels good, but it can get pretty monotonous after repeating the same position and routine day after day. If you are tired of doing the same thing and want to make your sex life more pleasurable and fun, you and your partner can try out these suggestions, which will also help to “refresh” your relationship and take it to a deeper level:

Try out new positions. This may seem obvious, but some couples will have sex in the same position every day (or at least every time they have sex). This is ok at first, but after weeks, months or even years of doing the same thing over and over again, it can get boring and will probably not be as pleasurable of an experience as it was in the beginning. To avoid this, try out new positions once in a while, especially positions that allow the man to penetrate deeply without too much effort and provide him visual stimulation and positions that hit the woman’s G-spot. These include the doggy-style position, woman-on-top position, your highness position (woman’s feet on man’s shoulders while man is sitting or standing) and the reverse cowgirl position (woman on top with her back facing her partner), though of course there are many, many more you can try out as well.

Make it into a game. Whether it is playing strip poker, role-playing (where couples pretend they are something or someone they are not, such as doctor-patient, teacher-student, and so on), or dressing up (where partners can dress up in something sexy, such as a corset, a Speedo, or simply sexy lingerie), turning sex into some sort of game will make your sex life both more fun and pleasurable.

Do it in different places. Having sex in places other than the bedroom can prevent couples from repeating the same routine day after day. Sometimes doing it in places that may feel not so private (though not too public, either) makes having sex feel even hotter. You can try places such as the kitchen or living room, a friend’s house (when they are not home, of course), or in the car after driving to a secluded area.

Use toys. Using sex toys and lubricants that provide pleasurable sensations is another excellent way to take the monotony out of your sex life. For support and comfort, while at the same time providing better sensations during sex, you can get the Little Deeper® sex wedge. This anatomically-designed cushion tilts and lifts up the pelvis into the perfect position for lovemaking, so couples don’t have to squirm around to find the position that feels best and most comfortable, plus it will allow for easier and deeper penetration, increasing pleasure for both partners.

You don’t have to do the same thing every time you and your partner have sex, and you definitely don’t have to be shy about trying something new. Adding something to your routine or changing the place will increase the enjoyment and pleasure you get out of sex, which helps prevent either partner from getting bored, which is important, since a good sex life can also mean a happier and more fulfilling relationship.

So go ahead and introduce something new to your usual routine. You will learn more about what works and feels best for you and your partner, plus both of you will have a lot of fun experimenting with different techniques and positions.