How to give better oral sex with a sex ramp

Oral sex should be enjoyable, both for the person giving and the one receiving. However, sometimes it may not feel so comfortable and even be slightly painful for the person giving it, or it may not be as pleasurable as it could be for the one receiving it. If you do not exactly appreciate the taste of oral sex, the position you have to put yourself in is uncomfortable or even painful, or you find yourself struggling to give your partner an orgasm when performing oral sex on him or her, trying some of the following tips will very likely make oral sex feel more pleasurable and comfortable – for both the giver and receiver.

Flavored lubricants will obviously help with the taste factor, but you also have to know which lubricants are best and safest to use when performing oral sex. Lubricants that provide stimulation or are silicone-based are fine to use during intercourse or for giving hand jobs, but they are not safe to ingest so they shouldn’t be used during oral sex.

Water-based and oil-based lubricants are safe to use when performing oral sex. Oil-based lubes, though, are more difficult to wash off afterward and should not be used on most sex toys or with condoms, along with any other products containing latex. Lubricants containing oil can also hold in bacteria inside the vagina, so using them in this area is not recommended and can increase the chances of infection (lubes that contain sugar can also cause this).

Flavored lubes that are water-based are the safest, as they do not have these risks and can be used with any object. There are also edible massage lubricants that you can use or lubes that can be used on the nipples while giving women oral sex (though many men enjoy having their nipples stimulated, too).

Sex toys, such as vibrators and dildos designed to hit a woman’s G-spot, are another great way to provide added sensation during oral sex. You can also use your fingers to stimulate the G-spot, or you can insert one or a few fingers into the anus at the same time, since anal stimulation can provide pleasure, too.

Also, you can gently stroke the area between the genitals and anus, known as the perineum. This is a very sensitive area for both men and women, so when stimulated it will provide added pleasure.

To allow the person who is giving oral sex to be in a more comfortable position, you can get the Little Deeper® sex cushion. This device lifts up the pelvis, so the giver does not have to lie or bend all the way down to the bed’s level (or wherever it is being performed), which can add quite a bit of strain on the neck and/or back. Because the person giving oral sex is in a more comfortable position, he or she will most likely be able to perform better, too. As a result, the one receiving oral sex will be able to experience more pleasure as well.

Knowing about these tips and adding them into your sex life will make oral sex a more enjoyable, satisfying and comfortable experience. So get out the lube, toys, and cushion and have fun!